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"Love & Hip Hop Hollywood" reality star, Amanda Secor has been painted as the bad guy this season after her ex-boyfriend, Lil Fizz. The former B2K singer revealed that she cheated on him with a mystery man from Miami and consistently tried to convince her to step up to the plate and finally play house and become his son, Kameron's step-mother, however, she seemed reluctant with all the drama.
With the constant bickering between her and Monience Slaughter and other personal issues, Amanda exclusively opens up to MStars News about the epic fight, cheating and romance rumors with Oakland Raider safety Jonathon Dowling, and the tragic death of her boyfriend after dating for 5-yeyars.
MStars News: How has your life changed since being on the show?
Amanda Secor: My life has stayed the same, but oviosuly there's so much more attention and everyone has something to say about what you're doing and an opinion about everything, so that's changed a lot.
MN: So what's your relationship now with Little Fizz?
Amanda Secor: We're currently broken up.
MN: How didn't you know that he was in B2K?
Amanda Secor: I definitely knew who B2K was, I just didn't know who he was. I had heard of B2K but I was more of an ethnic kid so I just didn't know who he was.
MN: Who Little Fizz was?
Amanda Secor: Yeah.
MN: So what actually, was like the last straw that caused the break up? Was it the fight between Moniece, or was it more than that?
Amanda Secor: I think it was a little bit of everything. Being on the show definitely magnifies all of the problems you have and it puts a lot of pressure on the relationship. He just wasn't being the man that I needed him to be at the time. He couldn't trust me and the whole Moniece thing was definitely too much for us to handle. I think we had gone through too much for us to be able to fix it.
MN: The big talk this season was about your fight with Moniece. It didn't seem that you expected her to swing when she took off her jacket. Why is that?
Amanda Secor: Okay, editing is a crazy thing! That's definitely not how the scenario went. But the way they edited it made it look like she took off her jacket and then she did it, which was not what happened. However, I didn't expect it because that's not how I behave or work, but I think what I was saying to Moniece, she couldn't handle the truth of what I was saying to her. So she did it. That was the only way she knew how to respond. I was actually looking down when it happened and she just grabbed my hair, but the way that it looks on camera was that it was this big thing and it wasn't like that at all. She caught me completely off guard. I wasn't even looking at her when she did it.
MN: Was that your first physical fight with her?
Amanda Secor: Yeah, of course, I'm a grown ass woman. I don't behave like that.
MN: So there's so much news about the reunion show taping, that there were several fights and things like that. Did you get into it with her?
Amanda Secor: I think you guys will definitely have to see. Tune in and watch and see what happens.
MN: So there's rumors going around that you're dating Oakland Raiders safety Jonathan Dowling. Especially one photo -and it may be innocent, but people like to speculate things. Is that true?
Amanda Secor: We're just friends right now.
MN: You're just friends, or you're like "friends?"
Amanda Secor: We're just friends right now (laughs).
MN: So this is the part that kind of like had me confused, as well as everyone else. When you were in the car with Little Fizz, you got a phone call about a reservation in Miami, but you're in L.A.
Amanda Secor: Right, I was in L.A. so I didn't know why he freaked out, like how would I make dinner reservations in Miami you freak. I mean, I lay with you, why are you mad right now. So that fight was completely- I just did not understand why he would be so mad. Clearly, it was a freak accident; I'm not in Miami. Clearly, I'm in the car with you on the way to eat right now. I wouldn't make it to Miami tonight, so that was just ridiculous.
MN: So why wouldn't you show him your phone?
Amanda Secor: I did. I did show him my phone. That's another crazy thing about it. I did show him my phone but you guys only get to see an hour worth of our entire life and our entire relationship. There's a lot of things that happened, that there's not time for you guys to see it, so I think that people have it misconstrued and think whatever. But I did show him my phone and I wasn't trying to hide anything. We made up that day. It's frustrating because I can't explain this to everyone, so they judge me by what they see in a three-minute scene.
MN: Well, they made it seem like a week later, after that argument in the car, you were seen with another guy.
Amanda Secor: No, it was the same guy, my same friend from Miami. We had went for breakfast and it was just breakfast, an innocent friendly thing. At the time I didn't think it was a big deal. Now, looking back at it of course I can see why he would be upset and why he would be uncomfortable, and it was a mistake I made and of course I regret doing that and breaking his trust. But from this point I can only learn from my mistake and grow from them and know the mistake I made. I was going through a lot; my boyfriend had just passed away. I was unsure about Drew and it was something that I did, but going in the future, I learned my lesson, I would never make that same mistake again.
MN: I saw that on your Instagram photos. You with your deceased boyfriend. How long were you with him and what happened?
Amanda Secor: Me and him were together for five years and he got sick and passed away suddenly. It was not like we were expecting it, we had planned our life together and he passed away. I met Drew immediately after and Drew was giving me so much love and so much affection and attention, but I was still trying to mourn my dead boyfriend. So I was mourning somebody and trying to accept all of Drew's love at the same time and I didn't know how to handle it. Which is why I was confused and unsure and why I did what I did. It was a mistake, and now looking back, I shouldn't have done that, but I was in a really weird place.
A photo posted by Amanda Secor (@_amandasecor) on Oct 10, 2012 at 8:48pm PDT
MN: So going outside the box. Now, the Hazel and Mystique situation. Do you think, Masika broke girl code?
Amanda Secor: Of course, she 100% broke girl code, of course. If somebody is coming to you and confiding in you on how they're hurt and how this dude did this to them, and then you go behind their back and get with this person all of a sudden, I think 100%. You know maybe, they weren't real friends; their friendship wasn't as deep as it seemed to the audience, but the way that it looks to the outside I think 100%. No one knows they're friendship better than they do.
MN: Yeah, so what was your immediate thoughts regarding Yung Berg's beating arrest and firing? Amanda Secor: What firing?
MN: He was fired from the show.
Amanda: He is?!
MN: Yeah, you didn't know that? Amanda Secor: OH my god, girl I didn't even hear that. Honestly, I try to stay away from all the drama and he said, she said, so I had actually not heard the whole story. I think it's actually a good thing that Love & Hip Hop kind of stepped in and did that because the show's kind of known for being violent and everybody hitting each other. I kind of think that's a good thing, to show that they don't condone violence, but that's crazy. I didn't even know that but of course nobody should put their hands on anybody. We're all adults; we're all human beings, control yourself.
A photo posted by Yung Berg (@hitmaka) on Oct 10, 2014 at 11:51am PDT
MN: Well do you think since they fired Yung Berg, do you think Jocelyn from Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta should get fired after her reunion brawl? Amanda Secor: Yeah. I think it's crazy and I think that it shouldn't be accepted, that it's okay. No one should put their hands on one another and there should be repercussions. I don't know if I would say she should get fired, but I think that Love & Hip Hop should say, "we don't condone violence." And if you do, then there's going to be repercussions from it. I think the same thing goes for me and the same thing should go for women.
MN: Well, now that you're not with Lil Fizz, what were your thoughts of when social media declared him the "Single Black Mom" because you didn't want to be his "wife" and Moniece reportedly being an "absentee parent."
Amanda Secor: It's not that, it's not that I didn't want to be his wife, it wasn't that. It was that Kameron has a mom; Kameron's mom should be his mom. And it was putting a lot of pressure on me to fill that void and I couldn't do it. I think Drew is an amazing father; I give him so much respect for taking on the responsibility of being the sole parent. I hope that Moniece- Monience is definitely stepping up and being more involved. So, I wish them both the best of luck and I hope that they can continue to co-parent and both be involved in his life because Kameron is amazing, he's so smart and adorable and he definitely needs both of them, not just Drew.
A photo posted by Lil Fizz (@airfizzo) on Oct 10, 2014 at 5:05pm PDT
MN: Do you think he was kind of taking away from the relationship, like forced you to be Kameron's mother?
Amanda Secor: Yes, definitely, I 100% think that!
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