Halle Berry, Olivier Martinez Divorce Update: 50th Birthday With BFFs A 'Cleansing' trip

Actress Halle Berry finally opens up about her split with husband number three, Olivier Martinez in an exclusive interview with Extra and says that she's the happiest she's ever been.

"I'm doing okay, I really am," the Oscar winner said, "I keep pushing and I'm really happy to be here because whenever you're going through anything in life, when you step outside yourself and focus on others, that's always the best remedy for any situation that you'd rather not be dealing with." 

Despite facing media frenzy after she announced her split with Martinez after only dating since 2010 and jumping the broom in 2013, she's keeping her focus on her children. Maceo, 2 and Nahla, 7, "Maceo didn't go trick-or-treating 'cause he has the chicken pox, Nahla was a zombie cheerleader, and we had a great time," Halle said. "I was a pirate and she (Nahla), she's like, 'You're a sexy pirate, Mommy,' I'm like, 'What do you know about a sexy pirate?'"

Berry is getting ready for her 50^th birthday and plans on traveling and staying clear of her divorce drama, "I am not going to be defined by that number. Yeah, it's coming. Yeah, so what? I am not going to be defined by that 5-0."  She explained, "I want it to come and go as fast as it can. I'm going to take my five best girlfriends to a Caribbean island, we're going to have a cleansing, we're going to jump in the ocean butt-naked and have a spiritual moment and bond and connect as women. That's how I'm going to blow it out with my girls, with my best, closest, dearest friends... I love my woman ships."