Gwen Stefani Loves Blake Shelton, 'Abandons' Kids With Gavin Rossdale After Pregnancy Drama?

First Gwen Stefani supposedly dumped Blake Shelton, but now crazy rumors suggest that she's "abandoning" her three young sons in order to spend more "intimate" time with the "Boys 'Round Here" crooner!

Apparently, the No Doubt beauty's even willing to give ex-hubby Gavin Rossdale primary custody to avoid any further drama involving her new Hollywood lover.

What!?

An alleged insider tells the seedy gossip tabloid Ok! magazine:

"[The boys] need stability and comfort more than ever, but Gwen would rather spend her time with Blake. It's like she's forgotten she has real responsibilities as a mom." 

Stefani's ready to start a new life with 39-year-old Shelton, and she doesn't want to confuse the kids - Kingston (9), Zuma (7), and Apollo (1) - by making them always choose sides between parents. Therefore, she's ready to "fly the coop" on motherhood.

Not true, MstarsNews readers! In fact, GossipCop confirms that "Stefani actually sees her children as much as she's allowed based on the current custody agreement she shares with Rossdale. She works hard to schedule visits around her busy "The Voice" commitments, since someone still "needs to bring home some money."

Ouch!

Shelton would probably be good with kids, but that's a whole different story. 

For now, Stefani loves spending as much time with the boys as possible.

Earlier this week, the "Don't Speak" songstress allegedly ditched Miranda Lambert's ex because the whole "dating" situation was too stressful:

"Gwen was feeling overwhelmed... She found all the attention surrounding her and Blake to be too much and regretted how soon they made their relationship public" (via Life & Style).

Well, they're still together, but Stefani's not failing her family, either!

Oh, and she's also NOT pregnant!

Sound off in the comments section below - will this blossoming (onscreen) romance survive the petty gossip?

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