Bethenny Frankel Sex Confession: 'RHONY' Star Jacuzzi Jet Masturbation Session in 'I Suck at Relationships'

Bethenny Frankel has done it all, from being a reality TV star, to a daytime TV talk show host, and somehow finding time to build the Skinny Girl empire, and write a few books here and there. The star is currently on the road promoting season seven of Real Housewives of New York, along with her new book, I Suck at Relationships So You Don't Have To, both of which debut tomorrow (April 7), but it is what the star wrote in her new book that is making the headlines today.

The reality TV star opened up in the self-help book that she is a big fan of self-helping herself in the bedroom ... if you know what we mean. According to an excerpt from the book posted to Daily Mail, Frankel is a huge fan of masturbating.

"I think masturbation is the ultimate way to get to know yourself," the star writes. "You can learn, at you own pace, exactly where you like to be touched, what turns you on, what you don't like, and how you have an orgasm."

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But according to Radar Online, the 44-year-old star reveals that while she is a huge advocate for self-pleasuring now, that she didn't start doing it until a boyfriend suggested she get a sex toy at 31.

"It just didn't occur to me," Frankel explained of being a late bloomer. "A guy I was dating once said to me, 'You need to get a toy.' I tried it, and it really does work."

While that confession is definitely a juicy one, the star did let another secret slip in the pages of her book. She writes that she gets pleasure from using the jets of a Jacuzzi.

"I've also used the jets on the Jacuzzi in a hotel, just FYI," Bethenny divulges.

Before moving on to the next topic, Frankel leaves readers with some last thoughts, saying, "Explore your body. Touch everywhere, not just in the obvious spots. Literally love yourself!"

RHONY season seven premieres tomorrow at 9:00 p.m. on Bravo.